Tag: 12 steps

The 12th Step Call: Finding the Light When Darkness Surrounds You

Photo I took of a brilliantly colored rose in springtime. ColiesCreations.com

My first clean and sober relationship A few years ago I got a call from my buddy in recovery, Aaron, asking if I had seen our mutual friend, we’ll call him Andy. Andy and I dated for 7 months when I first got into… Continue Reading “The 12th Step Call: Finding the Light When Darkness Surrounds You”

10 Years Ago: This ‘ol Opiate Addict’s Rock Bottom

My beagle on Taylor Mountain in Santa Rosa, CA. ColiesCreations.com

If you are an addict struggling with imagining what it would take to get clean, you’ve probably heard people talking about hitting rock bottom. I wanted to share with you the day that I consider to be my rock bottom because it was the… Continue Reading “10 Years Ago: This ‘ol Opiate Addict’s Rock Bottom”

Codependent Relationships and Addiction

Howarth Park & Spring Lake in Santa Rosa, CA. A morning in Winter. ColiesCreations.com

What follows is the very beginnings of my addiction and how I co-created some of my codependent relationships. You may be on this blog looking for support with a loved one and wondering why seemingly normal people act out in obsessive and manipulative behaviors… Continue Reading “Codependent Relationships and Addiction”